Posted on Sunday, May 11, 2014 in Uncategorized
“I don’t know what to say.“
“I don’t want to say it wrong.”
I can’t tell you how often I’ve heard those two phrases. I even color-coded them, because most often I’ve heard girls and women say the second, and boys and men say the first.
Why? Hurt people hurt people.
Regardless what your mother has said or done, intentionally or not, with genuine love, misguided “love” or with hate in her heart, her choices are her choices, her attitudes are her attitudes. And, yours are yours.
Do not try to change the other person, the change starts with ourselves.