Last night I was relaxing while listening to Jack Johnson’s “En Concert.” He’s the kind of artist that helps me relax and feel less alone in my feelings — without prompting me to wallow in them.
His song, “Symbol In My Driveway”, off the On and On album proclaims:
I’ve got a light bulb full of anger
And I can switch it on and off
And, in my best moments, I can shut off my anger; assuring that I neither stuff nor hide my anger.
Shut Off Our Anger
Posted on Saturday, July 21, 2012
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I’m thinking through what this means for me today, tomorrow, and my tomorrows.
What does the Lord your God require of you?
He requires only that you
fear the Lord your God,
and live in a way that pleases him,
and love him
and serve him with all your heart and soul.
- Deuteronomy 10:12, NLT
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Posted on Wednesday, May 30, 2012
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Did you have a busy Memorial Day weekend?
Did you have a hard time cranking it back up yesterday at work or school?
I was late to my first two meetings as I tried to resume my weekday timeliness.
So what can you do when stress levels rise?
A few years ago Elisha Goldstein on psychcentral.com offered four simple, helpful stress relieving tips.
Next time you find your mind racing with stress, try the acronym S.T.O.P.
S – Stop what you are doing, put things down for a minute.
Posted on Wednesday, May 23, 2012
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This week I’ve written about three people I admire, Gerry and Julie Andersen, and Lance Berkman. They each have accomplishments that many people would envy.
Rather than envy I examine what helps someone become a success and look for ways to apply similar principles in my own life.
Today I was reminded of these seven strategies an unknown author suggested for a balanced life. As I have sought to embrace these strategies as disciplines I have found more balance in my life. Perhaps if you practice these strategies you’ll experience more balance too.
A Balanced Life
Posted on Wednesday, February 15, 2012
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Yesterday was Valentines Day. Yesterday was also the anniversary of the legend of the green hippo. If you don’t know that story or want another opportunity to laugh at me, feel free to read it again in Sex, Lies & the Truth – Pt 3 of 3 – The Truth.
I’m trying to grow up, grow more appreciative, take my Valentine less for granted, show the love I think of, feel the love that lives within and follow her example of generosity.
I worked a fourteen-hour day yesterday, but I still got a couple things right.
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Posted on Tuesday, January 31, 2012
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Pro Bowl, all-star quality, friendships are hard work. This week I’m sharing five strategies that will improve your relationships and deepen their commitment.
Yesterday we addressed how important it is to:
Locate The Trouble Spot
Look back. Try to assess what has gone wrong.
Where did the misunderstanding or conflict begin?
Then, as often as needed, apologize.
Apologize When You’re Wrong
All of us mess up. It is foolish to let pride and insecurity keep us from admitting it and trying to patch up the relationship. You might have One Republic’s song “Apologize” running through your head:
Posted on Wednesday, January 4, 2012
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Christmas is over, but the new year is here.
You enjoy Christmas presents, it’s time to enjoy a New years gift.
I don’t believe on New Years resolutions I believe in doing.
Give yourself the gift of ambition.
Believe in yourself.
Go for what you want.
Find a way to do it.
Get someone to help you find a way.
What gets in the way?
Do you get distracted from your goal?
Find a reliable accountability partner.
Do you get lazy?
Find a goal with a benefit that is better than your excuses.
Posted on Friday, October 14, 2011
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Yesterday was my wife Amy’s birthday.
Amy is one of the most caring and unselfish people I know. She is often a benchmark of selflessness. More than once I thought I should wear a W>W>A>D> bracelet to remind me to ask myself, “What Would Amy Do?”, in order to overcome some of my natural selfishness.
What is one way that I can intentionally give up some of my selfishness today?
I try to have high moral standards, but I think that question is a fair question to ask every day.
My selfishness unintentionally compromises the health of my relationships.
Posted on Thursday, October 13, 2011
9493 days ago I met this really cute blond girl in the lobby of her college dorm. A couple months later I was thrilled she agreed to go out with me. You can read more about our relationship here.
As Amy and I started dating it became clear that she set a benchmark of kindness, humility and thoughtfulness that far exceeded my own.
Amy does not pursue unsolicited attention for her actions, but I watched and wondered, “Could I ever be like her?”
I am the grandson of a depression survivor. My maternal grandfather Ray Brausam was frugal man. I admire how he found ways to save money.
One of the ways he saved money was finding uses for things other people discarded. He sold cans and newspapers to recyclers to earn extra cash. My dad later helped me to do the same thing.
By Nature I Am A “Saver”
I am no where near as frugal as my grandfather, nor as smart as my dad, but I did manage to take the saving strategy to an extreme in the wrong direction.