Posted on Monday, April 6, 2015 in Uncategorized
Years ago some friends and I rented snowshoes and drove into A-Basin (Arapahoe Basin) in Colorado. When we arrived we strapped on our snowshoes.
Though we were all about the same size with the same size snowshoe, no one seemed to have any trouble, except me. For some reason I kept dropping through the snow-pack. I kept getting stuck.
The worst was when I had one leg plunged deep into the snow all the way to my groin and the other flat on the ground. While trying to extricate my left leg my right leg plunged through the snow nearly reaching the depth of the other. I howled something impolite as I realized that I was now going to dig myself out of the snow while wearing my snowshoes.
Posted on Monday, August 18, 2014 in Uncategorized
My daughter Shannon recently took a form of the test most of us call “Myers-Briggs.” Shannon is persuasive, so of course the rest of the family was invited into the quest.
I last took the test three years ago. You can take it now for free.
Three years ago I scored an ISFJ nicknamed Protectors. I liked the idea of being a “protector.”
Protector, it sounds noble and compassionate. I’d like to be a protector.
Posted on Thursday, June 12, 2014 in Uncategorized
Yesterday I would have screamed, “Don’t Act Like A Jerk!” if I wasn’t so aware of my tone of voice.
My tone of voice and the underlying thoughts and feelings have tripped me up more than I’d like to admit. Before I got around to admitting it, in this post, I asked: What should you be seeing in your own life? What do you let stand in the way of seeing it?
Hopefully you’ll think about that a while, but in the meantime with an honest assessment in hand, I’ll tell you how I’m dealing with my contribution to the turmoil I tend to create.
Posted on Wednesday, June 11, 2014 in Uncategorized
What are you adding to your team? We all have something to add, but are we contributing and aware that we are?
We all have our quirks. In a team setting, how do your quirks add value and how do they add drama?
Unfortunately, too often those quirks can make us look like jerks if we let them.
Wow, do I hate those words. Not because someone doesn’t have a right to say them. Nor that they shouldn’t say them to me, but now, because they brought it up, I have to take an honest look at myself.
Posted on Friday, March 22, 2013 in Uncategorized
Prompted by my reading of Quiet by Susan Cain, this week we’ve explored introverts and extroverts their distinctive and their qualities. Including:
I Buy Coffee
And, Are YOU An Introvert or Extrovert?
Whether you’re a parent, a brother or sister, an aunt, uncle or neighbor, you know children. And, if you’re like me, quiet children can be a mystery.
Today, I’d like to let Susan Cain’s insights on introvert children speak for themselves. Oh, wait – let me say this first – my favorite quote from her about children is: “Don’t just accept your child for who she is; treasure her.”
Posted on Thursday, March 21, 2013 in Uncategorized
Are You An Introvert or Extrovert (And Why Does It Matter)?
Do you ever wonder where you fall on the introvert-extrovert spectrum?
Here is the place to assess yourself.
This quiz from Susan Cain’s QUIET: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can’t Stop Talking will help you self-assess.
Posted on Tuesday, August 7, 2012 in Uncategorized
This weekend my dear – and very pregnant – friend Angi had a baby shower.
“Pumpkin seed” is Angi’s first.
This was also my first baby shower.
I know husbands, boyfriends, significant others and the like who have attended baby showers, but I never had.
I was feeling a variety of feelings as the moment to leave for the party arrived:
Posted on Saturday, July 21, 2012 in Uncategorized
I’m thinking through what this means for me today, tomorrow, and my tomorrows.
What does the Lord your God require of you?
He requires only that you
fear the Lord your God,
and live in a way that pleases him,
and love him
and serve him with all your heart and soul.
– Deuteronomy 10:12, NLT
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Posted on Wednesday, May 30, 2012 in Uncategorized
Did you have a busy Memorial Day weekend?
Did you have a hard time cranking it back up yesterday at work or school?
I was late to my first two meetings as I tried to resume my weekday timeliness.
So what can you do when stress levels rise?
A few years ago Elisha Goldstein on psychcentral.com offered four simple, helpful stress relieving tips.
Next time you find your mind racing with stress, try the acronym S.T.O.P.
S – Stop what you are doing, put things down for a minute.
Posted on Wednesday, February 8, 2012 in Uncategorized
I know that this has happened to you. Today it happened to me.
The clock showed “10:41”, I relaxed, settled in and took a deep breath. I had time. No need to rush.
I did a couple quick things that needed to get done, took a quick glance at the clock, “Wow, I’m really efficient today.”
Then. Then! THEN! I thought to myself, that was too efficient. I checked another clock, “11:16”!
Noooooo! The clock had stopped!
My leisurely lunch deadline, now became my dead spring lunch deadline.