Posted on Monday, October 1, 2012
in Emotional, How To, Relational, Social, Spiritual, Values
Last night after my wife Amy finished celebrating her Green Bay Packers victory we started prepping dinner. While making dinner The Simpsons came on.
If you don’t know, most Simpsons episodes begins with an opening sequence of several short clips including Bart Simpson satisfying a consequence by writing a phrase on the classroom chalkboard.
Known as the chalkboard gag, Wikipedia explains, “the chalkboard gag is a running visual joke that occurs during the opening credits of many episodes. In this gag, Bart Simpson is writing a unique phrase on the chalkboard repeatedly; when the school bell rings, he immediately stops writing and runs out of the classroom.” 1
Posted on Tuesday, April 3, 2012
in Emotional, Relational, Social, Spiritual, Values
I’ve been confronted by several people that I respect recently. Whether I want it to or not, confrontation can tear at, or even trample, my self-identity.
One person suggested that I sounded like I thought that I knew more than other people and “if only they knew what I knew then they would be okay.” I hate when I’ve been condescending.
I’ve also been confronted that I seem intimidated around people who are wealthier than me; and they are right.
Posted on Thursday, May 5, 2011
in Emotional, Relational, Social, Values
Overcoming the fear of being exposed is one of the keys to breaking the bondage of the tricks and lies about cutting.
The Fear Of Exposure Perverts Our Thinking
“Psychologist Larry Crabb says that the primary motivation for all of our social behavior is a fear that if others really knew us as we are, they would reject us in disgust. This fear of exposure is rooted in our sense of the ugliness of our fallen natures as they have been perverted and corrupted by sin. Satan delights in inflaming this fear…”
Posted on Thursday, March 24, 2011
in Emotional, Relational, Social, TreeHouse
True intimacy provides significance and security.
Significance is “a purpose for living which will give me a real and lasting impact on my world and a purpose which I am completely adequate to accomplish.”
Security comes from unconditional love, at TreeHouse we call it “love without strings.”. “People need that kind of love. We need, really need, to be loved as we are, loved at our worst. We need to regard ourselves as worthwhile. In order to do so, we must not only be significant but also be secure in the unconditional love of another person.”
True intimacy is far more than physical interaction. Sexuality is not limited to the genitals: it covers a much broader spectrum of caresses, kisses, friendly company and words of affection. It includes a unity of personality, emotions, and our spiritual nature.
Charles Sell suggests that in order for there to be sweet music in our relationship we must keep in mind “if you’re married to a violin, be a bow.” 1
Get to know one another more intimately.
True Intimacy Takes Time
Maintaining an intimate relationship involves renovating and maintaining the romance.
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