Posted on Wednesday, March 27, 2013
in Emotional, How To, Relational, Spiritual, TreeHouse, Values
Last night as I sat in a TreeHouse support group I sat in awe.
There surrounded by junior high teens I found myself grateful for their patient listening, gracious sharing and genuine compassion.
Most of the teens in my small group had been part of TreeHouse only a few weeks, yet directly and indirectly each teen reminded the other that “this is a safe place.”
Safe places are too few and far between. Those safe places, cared for and nurtured by safe people are safe harbors for the strong and the able, the weak and the wounded, and the lost and the wandering.
I had some shame stirring as I woke up: rude to my wife, messy with my stuff, snoring, gingivitis, etc. God knows I can digress if I sit in my junk for long.
When I do, I felt like a wreck. I know some of you have felt the same way:
I’m not even strong enough for myself
I’m falling to pieces
Honestly don’t care about anything anymore
Can’t go on living like this
I need someone to listen. No one can help me.
Fortunately, God is listening.
On the way to work in the back of my mind was playing:
I wrote my first Spoken Word poem today.
Some would say, “I wish he would crush me.
I wish he would reach out his hand and kill me…
But in my distress I cried out to the Lord;
yes, I prayed to my God for help.
He heard me…my cry to him reached his ears…
He reached down from heaven and rescued me;
he drew me out of deep waters.
For he will conceal me there when troubles come;
he will hide me in his sanctuary.
He will place me out of reach on a high rock…
Posted on Saturday, February 2, 2013
in Emotional, Reviews, Spiritual, Values
Author Kay Arthur explains to her readers, “We dare not go into battle unprepared!”
Throughout As Silver Refined, Kay Arthur challenges readers to prepare for life inevitable challenges.
“I WAS A FAILURE. I was convinced of it. I had failed God, and there was nothing I could do about it. I was impotent to change my circumstances. Disappointment overwhelmed me.” That kind of humility makes this book very approachable. I wish that there were more heart-connecting stories.
The author understand people and our circumstances: “The downward spiral begins…with disappointment. Disappointment comes when our expectations aren’t met. Consequently we’re not happy about it — we’re disturbed.
Posted on Wednesday, December 28, 2011
in Emotional, How To, Relational, Social, Spiritual, Values
I sat down in a coffee shop today. A young professional to my left. Another man to my right. One sat with a beverage, a laptop and fine clothes. The man to my right sat wearing shabby, unkempt clothes, with nothing in front of him.
Those of you who know me well probably laughed: a) that I noticed; and b) that someone dressed less “casually” than I did.
I thought I’d be nice. After setting down my stuff, I said to the man on my right, “You don’t have a beverage, can I buy you one?” He said, “No, thank you.” I walked to the counter. Five minutes later he left.
Posted on Friday, May 13, 2011
in Emotional, How To, Relational
QUESTION: My friend/daughter/son/lover feels hopeless and wishes he/she was dead. What can I do?
1 – If you believe that this is an emergency: Call 911
2 – If you think that there is immediate risk:
Have they thought about suicide recently?
Does he/she have a plan?
Does he/she have the means immediately accessible to carry out their plan there?
Is there anyone else in the home (or wherever their location)?
3 – If you feel concerned and want to offer helpful help, here’s help:
Posted on Thursday, May 12, 2011
in Relational, Values
QUESTION: I feel hopeless. I wish I were dead. No one cares. What can I do?
OUR REPLY: “I would call Love Lines at 612-379-1199 or the Suicide Prevention Center 612-347-2222 they specialize in helping people with suicidal thoughts 24/7/365.
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