Posted on Friday, September 7, 2012
in Education, Emotional, Financial, How To, Intellectual, Music, Relational, Social, Spiritual, Values
This week I’m responding to Ken Davis’ call to be “fully alive.” Fully alive people are characterized by many things including meaningful friendships, courageously overcoming fear, and a determination to course corrections when they fail.
We all fail. Failure is painful.
Pain is part of the price of living.
– Love is painful.
– Relationships are painful.
– Failing is painful.
If we choose to move forward in our quest to live fully alive, we will fall, it will hurt . . . and it will be worth it.
Be prepared to pay the price. Change costs. Progress can be painful.
I had just thrown an interception. In my opinion, throwing an interception was letting my team down. I failed to complete the pass. I failed to help my teammate Madison. She could have caught a good pass, but I threw it where she couldn’t catch it.
“Other Scott” happily grabbed it.
“Other Scott” won the game’s MVP award, but I — this Scott — let my team down. I hate when I let my team down.
Fortunately, I was not alone.
“God did not give us a spirit that makes us afraid but a spirit of power and love and self-control.” 1
Posted on Wednesday, September 5, 2012
in Emotional, How To, Relational, Social, Spiritual, Values
Fully Alive by Ken Davis challenges us to step out of our comfort zones, and yesterday as part of being fully alive we discussed the importance of making friends and building deep friendships.
You Can’t Fake Being Fully Alive
“You can fool people for a while, but eventually they will know. And you can never fool yourself.
Being alive is more than simply looking fluffed up and combed out on the outside. It’s a matter of attitude. And that comes from the inside. Approaching…challenges with the right attitude is the first and most important step you can take. Your attitude will launch your dreams or bury them.”
Yesterday I posted my review of Fully Alive by Ken Davis.
Davis’ book challenges us to step out of our comfort zones to build deep friendships.
Today is the first day of school for millions of children; it’s an ideal opportunity to build on old friendships or to start building new ones.
How Can I Build Friendships?
Davis explains, “Making friends is like exercise; it requires discipline and vigilance.” 1
– It takes time
– It takes patience
– It takes graciousness.
Posted on Monday, August 27, 2012
in Education, How To, Intellectual, Values
On behalf of my son Josh, and all students starting school this week and next, allow me to remind you of these excellent suggestions:
Ask questions, it will help you in the long run.
Be yourself, you will be more popular that way.
Check for toilet paper when you enter the stall.
Don’t procrastinate; there won’t be time later.
Get good sleep, each night, it makes school easier.
If you fall asleep in class, expect your teacher to embarrass you.