Posted on Monday, October 8, 2012
in How To, Relational, Spiritual, Values
I work hard.
I play hard.
But. sometimes I wonder if I’m neglecting to see something right in front of me.
Henri Nouwen wrote:
“In Abraham Heschel’s A Passion for Truth I read today the words of the Kotzker (Rabbi Menahem Mendl of Kotzk): “he who thinks that he is finished is finished.” How true.
Those who think that they have arrived, have lost their way.
Those who think they have reached their goal, have missed it.
Those who think they are saints, are demons.
Posted on Sunday, September 23, 2012
in Emotional, Relational, Social, Values
Why Come To TreeHouse?
You’ll learn you’re not alone in dealing with any issue.
You’ll learn how to support someone else in need.
You’ll realize you’re lovable, capable and worthwhile.
At TreeHouse you will always be listened to and what you say matters to others.
Mentoring at TreeHouse Makes Life Better
Decrease at-risk behavior – 98% reduce at least one at-risk behavior
Build healthy relationships with God, self & others – 81% choose to
Graduate High School – 24% more likely to graduate than their peers
Pursue an educational or vocational track for their future – 93% choose to
Posted on Friday, September 21, 2012
in Music, Spiritual, Values
The U.S. presidential election is nearing; Tuesday, November 6, 2012. It’s forty-five days away. Millions of dollars have been spent on the campaigns.
These are the campaign values I’ve heard: accusations and slander, grumbling and judgments, unrest and disharmony, false hopes and empty promises.
I know it’s a dream, but these are the campaign values that I wish I heard:
Let’s be devoted to one another in love.
Let’s honor one another above yourselves.
Let’s inspire one another on toward love and good deeds.
Let’s live in harmony with one another.
Let’s accept one another.
Posted on Thursday, August 30, 2012
in Emotional, How To, Relational, Social, Spiritual, Values
If you’re like most people I know, you’ve wanted to get some things done this summer.
Good intentions, but the followup through fell through.
You might be asking, “What can I do about my procrastinating?”
To that I might ask, “Why are you procrastinating now?”
Yesterday I introduced a helpful exercise I’m calling “Face It” or F.A.C.E. I.T.
F – Find something that you know you’re procrastinating with
A – Ask yourself, “Why am I procrastinating with this?”
C – Challenge your reasons to feel your feelings & find the facts
E – Examine your reasons: What do you feel strongest?
Posted on Wednesday, August 29, 2012
in Education, Emotional, Financial, How To, Intellectual, Relational, Social, Spiritual, Values
Yesterday, I exposed a few reasons why we procrastinate including:
We feel overwhelmed.
We overestimate the amount of time needed.
We would rather be doing something else.
We think if we wait long, the task will go away.
We fear failure.
We fear success.
We enjoy the last-minute adrenaline rush.
What’s beneath those reasons?
There are many factors, here are a few:
Christopher procrastinates signing up for football because he’s afraid to have all the lies he’s told about his abilities exposed.
Posted on Monday, August 27, 2012
in Education, How To, Intellectual, Values
On behalf of my son Josh, and all students starting school this week and next, allow me to remind you of these excellent suggestions:
Ask questions, it will help you in the long run.
Be yourself, you will be more popular that way.
Check for toilet paper when you enter the stall.
Don’t procrastinate; there won’t be time later.
Get good sleep, each night, it makes school easier.
If you fall asleep in class, expect your teacher to embarrass you.
The Dark Knight Rises opened last night. He’s a brave risk-taker.
But, I’m not a multimillionaire, so I’ll never be like Bruce Wayne.
The Amazing Spiderman opened a few weeks ago. He’s a brave risk-taker.
But, I’m not going to be bit by a radioactive spider, so I’ll never be like Peter Parker.
What kind of hero — what kind of bold, heroic, risk-taker — might you and I become?
Real World Heroes = Risk-Takers
Yesterday I had an hour-long conversation with a university professor who teaches potential risk-takers; she teaches entrepreneurship. It was a fascinating discussion about the challenges of taking great ideas and creating great opportunities.
Posted on Tuesday, April 24, 2012
in Emotional, Values
Some of you know me better than others.
– Some of you are my closest friends and family.
– Some of you have known me for years; and others for a short time.
– Still; others of you only know me by what you read.
So, to each of you let me take a moment to reveal something about myself.
If there is one thing I am most proud of in my life — one trait that I am want most to be known for — it’s that I am unpretentious. I am genuine.
WYSIWIR: What you see is what is real.
Posted on Thursday, April 5, 2012
in Emotional, Relational, Social, Spiritual, Values
I heard a story I’ll never forget.
My three year old son had a lot of problems with potty training; and I was on him constantly. One day we stopped at Taco Bell for a quick lunch between errands. It was very busy, with a full dining room.
While enjoying my taco I smelled something funny, so of course I checked my seven month old daughter. And she was clean. Then I realized that Matt had not asked to go potty in a while, so I asked, and he said, “No.”
Posted on Wednesday, March 14, 2012
in Financial, Intellectual, Spiritual, Values
Amy’s dream vacation — and therefore my dream vacation — was to go to Hawaii. Not just to go to Hawaii, but to go to Hawaii and see whales. That meant, of course, that we would have to do many things that we had never done before.
As many of you know a very kind and generous man gave us his frequent flier miles so our airfare to and from Hawaii was free. Thus began our scramble to do our part to make the rest of the dream a reality.