Posted on Monday, March 9, 2015 in Uncategorized
This is a picture of my friends Tiffany and Barry. I’ll see Barry next month. I last saw Tif in 1991.
Tiffany, Kris, Jenny, Eric, Rajjon, Adam, John, Beng, and Tyler, all TreeHouse teens. All gone. Way too soon.
Life Is Short
This is post is part of a series entitled “10 for 25.” It’s about ten lessons – most of them hard lessons to learn – that I’ve learned over my twenty-five years at TreeHouse.
Life is short. Our time with loved ones is never guaranteed.
Posted on Tuesday, May 13, 2014 in Uncategorized
I went to a funeral last week.
I looked around.
I captured the moment.
I saw the faces that filled the spaces.
The grief was clear.
The sadness is tender.
The care was genuine.
The affection was deep.
The appreciation was sincere.
I saw regret wash over some faces.
Maybe for Vern; the dear man who passed away. Maybe, or more likely, for words never spoken to others.
It’s true, “Anxiety weighs down the heart, but a kind word cheers it up.” 1
So, on their behalf, and for each of us, here are two words of wisdom:
Posted on Wednesday, May 7, 2014 in Uncategorized
I had a nightmare and woke suddenly. I’m not, as parents say, “a good sleeper” to start with; add a nightmare and I might not fall back to sleep. I really didn’t.
I lay awake sleeplessly thinking about the funeral I was about to attend. I had the theme of leaving a legacy running through my sleep-deprived brain.
Finally, since I was awake, I started to read. I opened up The Deeper Life: Satisfying the 8 Vital Longings of Your Soul by Daniel Henderson. Wow, it was perfect.
Posted on Friday, April 11, 2014 in Uncategorized
As a well-read person I knew embarrassingly little about Walter Wink before I read this book. He’s a fascinating man. I wish that I had known him personally.
Reading “Just Jesus”, the final book by Walter Wink, was an introduction to a fascinating man who made public his joys and sorrows, successes and “my struggle to become human.” This book is a quick read. There are stories and discourses in short chapters, poems, and prayers.
I loved reading several chapters; my favorites were:
Posted on Monday, March 17, 2014 in Uncategorized
This is a 1996 picture of our son Josh, our daughter Shannon and our dog Taz.
Taz was a miniature schnauzer; a little dog with a big-dog personality. Taz was fun and funny.
Taz loved people. Taz would find his ball and set it into your lap. He was inviting you to play with him.
Taz loved to play fetch.
Taz learned to flip his head and open his mouth at the same time.
In doing so, he could throw his ball back to you!
Posted on Friday, February 28, 2014 in Uncategorized
Tomorrow is third anniversary of my second lease on life.
Tuesday March 1, 2011 I had a near-death experience.
While driving home – surprise – death came calling.
Death Came Calling
I was sitting at the intersection talking to my friend Jesse waiting to turn at the light. The green arrow lit up.
Time to go.
I started to turn left and stopped for no apparent reason.
My foot slowly rose off the gas pedal, for no apparent reason.
Posted on Tuesday, October 1, 2013 in Uncategorized
“The advice of the wise is like a life-giving fountain; those who accept it avoid the snares of death.” 1
1 – Proverbs 13:14, NLT
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Posted on Wednesday, March 13, 2013 in Uncategorized
Monday How To Express Your Compassion began a series on compassion, followed by Silently Express Your Compassion.
I would argue that undermost circumstances when we express compassion we are better to be silent that to talk too much.
It’s important to listen patiently without an agenda.
And, to listen compassionately without judgment.
We all need to listen patiently, graciously and sensitively; seeking neither to give advice nor to fix people.
Sometimes we do need to speak up. It’s a challenge to know when to speak up and when to shut up.
Posted on Tuesday, March 12, 2013 in Uncategorized
Yesterday How To Express Your Compassion began a series on compassion borne out of pain.
Let me back up a step. For more than twenty years I have struggled to provide caring support for those in need.
You see, I’m a head-guy, more than a heart-guy.
As a cerebral-thinker it’s been a challenge to fit the deep emotional pain of people in pain within my worldview. It’s hard sometimes. Naturally I want to:
– Trace things back to their origin
I want to manage, measure, navigate, unravel and diagnose.