Off Limits – Flirting With The Taken
You know what I’m talking about here, but let’s go there.
He’s a friendly guy, but when he’s dating someone he seems extra friendly.
The truth is he’s feeling safe and self-confident because his current relationship is boosting his self-esteem, but he doesn’t know that, he just feels like “every girl likes him.”
And, you’re one of them.
It starts with a smile. Another.
A longer look.
He gets your number.
You had his # for a while, but never texted him: Off Limits
He texted: Hey! (Guys can be so bold, hah!)
You reply.
Back and forth, just the news, and then:
Honesty Is Counter-Cultural
Honesty is a culturally threatening virtue. So threatening that few people make it a constant choice. It’s counter-cultural to choose to be honest.
Cultural Corruption
People joked about cheating on their taxes – “it’s okay unless you get caught.” People make “little white lies.” They cover up the truth “to protect the other person.”
“Everyone lies” and “everyone lies some of the time” are routinely used to justify the choice to be dishonest. That’s if the choice to be dishonest is ever challenged.
“You love evil more than good and lies more than truth”, says the songwriter.
