Unknowns
Bathroom Fans
We recently replaced a bathroom fan.
Our new fan is larger and quieter than our old fan, but it required considerably more work to install. There were several unknowns.
Without climbing into the attic I wasn’t certain which way the fan would set in the hole.
I wasn’t certain whether the wiring was compatible – it said “bare wire”, but had a green wire. I assumed it was a ground, but I wasn’t certain.
He Chose the Nails: What God Did To Win Your Heart by Max Lucado
What God Did To Win Your Heart.
It’s a captivating subtitle: What God Did To Win Your Heart.
Lucado’s challenge is to personalize the life and death of Christ.
Lucado explains that Jesus’ proclamation “I did it just for you.” is his resounding, enduring and personalized message.
Lucado makes the case that the trial, judgment, and execution was not happenstance. “Knowing his last deeds would be forever pondered, don’t you think he chose them carefully? Deliberately? Of course he did. There were no accidents that day.”
Proclaiming to the end, “I did it for you. I did it all for you.”
What’s a Neighbor to Do?
Welcome today to our friends from Chris Spradlin’s insightful and practical EpicParent.
Chris was gracious enough to allow me to guest post on EpicParent today. You can read “You’re Not Alone!!” here.
Let me catch you all up.
This week we took a look at fifteen year old Desean’s choice to come home drunk.
We took a look at his scenario from three perspectives:
Today we’ll consider what a neighbor should and should not do.
What’s a Best Friend to Do?
Taxes are due this week. Tax preparers prepare tax returns, but what’s a best friend to do with a drunk best friend?
Let me explain. 1
Desean loved his friends. He’s got several friends. Not all of his friends get along together.
One night, a Wednesday night, Desean and Chris stayed out late. Chris had been with Desean and some of his other friends, but when they started talking about getting drunk Chris “remembered” homework he wanted to get done. He left hoping Desean would join him. He didn’t.
Desean’s mom and sister trusted Desean; and they trusted Chris.
Man Alive by Patrick Morley
I’ve read and valued Patrick Morley’s book Man In The Mirror. I found it relevant, poignant and inspirational. I had not read anything by Patrick Morley in years, but I was anticipating more of the same.
I was not disappointed.
Morley has a great reputation, and based on my experiences he certainly knows what he’s talking about.
Whether I would choose to refer to his “7 Primal Needs” as primal not I did agree with him that they were of import.
Man Alive: Transforming Your 7 Primal Needs into a Powerful Spiritual Life is based on his decades of discipling and mentoring men.
What’s A Dad To Do?
Taxes are due this week. Tax preparers prepare tax returns, but what’s a dad to do with his drunk son who lives with his ex-wife? 1
Let me explain.
Desean loved his friends. It’s not that he disliked his family, he just loved to get out of his noisy, cramped apartment to have fun.
One night, a Wednesday night, at 11:30 P.M. you got a call from your ex. She snarled, “Is D there? He hasn’t come home.”
He hadn’t. You hadn’t any idea why she was asking, but based on her tone of voice she was angry, frustrated and scared.
What’s A Mom To Do?
Taxes are due this week. Tax preparers prepare tax returns, but what’s a mom to do with her drunk son?
Let me explain.
Desean loved his friends. It’s not that he disliked his family, he just loved to get out of his noisy, cramped apartment to have fun. 1
One night, a Wednesday night, Desean stayed out late.
His mom and sister trusted him, but this was a school night, and he was late. Not only was he late, but he wasn’t answering his cell phone. His sister started to worry, but it wasn’t until Desean’s younger sister called their mom did she even know that he was late.
Tax Preparers Process The Rest Of Us Should Listen More
My friend Angela said it briefly and wisely…”love takes courage.” <3
Courage.
Courage to love.
Courage to love through conflict.
Courage to love despite inevitable change. and the courage to love from a distance.
Remember that the time and effort we invest in a relationship, is evidence of the value we place in it:
If we prioritize our marriage relationship it will most likely give us a happier marriage.
If we prioritize time and trust with a best friend it will most likely yield a lasting friendship.
Winning Runs – Coaching Problem Players
Jim Thome signed with the MLB’s Philadelphia Phillies this off season. I felt sad. When he played with my local team, the Minnesota Twins, he was my favorite player.
Why? Let me explain.
When Thome signed with the Twins before the 2010 season, the phone of (then) Twins general manager Bill Smith rang.
Smith recalled, “I got a call from someone with Philadelphia, telling me what a great guy we were getting…And then I got calls from the White Sox. And the Dodgers, even though he hadn’t been there a long time. And from Cleveland. They’d all say the same thing, about what a good guy he is.” 1
Winning Runs – Get To Know Your Team
As Major League Baseball’s Spring Training ended each team made decisions about problem players. They asked and answered:
“Do his assets exceed the sum total of his deficits?”
“Do his strengths outweigh his weaknesses?”
Your workplace has the same challenges. Building a team of competent employees is a challenge.
You can’t change someone’s personality, but you can implement strategies to help them perform professionally and more competently while on the job.
Most Common Types Of Problem People And Strategies To Help Them Succeed: 1
The non-communicative person.
Ask open questions that force her to explain what she thinks.
