The Dream I Had
I had a dream Sunday night. I couldn’t wait to tell you about it, but I did.
I was riding on a flat bottom rail car through an unnamed city.
Our flatbed train was kind of like a ten-foot wide airport moving walkway. We were traveling in an open flatbed rail car with no safety features at all. It seemed normal. 1
I traveled with my son Josh, and a third person who was a combination of my wife Amy and daughter Shannon. Since they are so close, it didn’t seem weird at all.
What’s a Neighbor to Do?
Welcome today to our friends from Chris Spradlin’s insightful and practical EpicParent.
Chris was gracious enough to allow me to guest post on EpicParent today. You can read “You’re Not Alone!!” here.
Let me catch you all up.
This week we took a look at fifteen year old Desean’s choice to come home drunk.
We took a look at his scenario from three perspectives:
Today we’ll consider what a neighbor should and should not do.
What’s a Best Friend to Do?
Taxes are due this week. Tax preparers prepare tax returns, but what’s a best friend to do with a drunk best friend?
Let me explain. 1
Desean loved his friends. He’s got several friends. Not all of his friends get along together.
One night, a Wednesday night, Desean and Chris stayed out late. Chris had been with Desean and some of his other friends, but when they started talking about getting drunk Chris “remembered” homework he wanted to get done. He left hoping Desean would join him. He didn’t.
Desean’s mom and sister trusted Desean; and they trusted Chris.
Man Alive by Patrick Morley
I’ve read and valued Patrick Morley’s book Man In The Mirror. I found it relevant, poignant and inspirational. I had not read anything by Patrick Morley in years, but I was anticipating more of the same.
I was not disappointed.
Morley has a great reputation, and based on my experiences he certainly knows what he’s talking about.
Whether I would choose to refer to his “7 Primal Needs” as primal not I did agree with him that they were of import.
Man Alive: Transforming Your 7 Primal Needs into a Powerful Spiritual Life is based on his decades of discipling and mentoring men.
What’s A Dad To Do?
Taxes are due this week. Tax preparers prepare tax returns, but what’s a dad to do with his drunk son who lives with his ex-wife? 1
Let me explain.
Desean loved his friends. It’s not that he disliked his family, he just loved to get out of his noisy, cramped apartment to have fun.
One night, a Wednesday night, at 11:30 P.M. you got a call from your ex. She snarled, “Is D there? He hasn’t come home.”
He hadn’t. You hadn’t any idea why she was asking, but based on her tone of voice she was angry, frustrated and scared.
What’s A Mom To Do?
Taxes are due this week. Tax preparers prepare tax returns, but what’s a mom to do with her drunk son?
Let me explain.
Desean loved his friends. It’s not that he disliked his family, he just loved to get out of his noisy, cramped apartment to have fun. 1
One night, a Wednesday night, Desean stayed out late.
His mom and sister trusted him, but this was a school night, and he was late. Not only was he late, but he wasn’t answering his cell phone. His sister started to worry, but it wasn’t until Desean’s younger sister called their mom did she even know that he was late.
Tax Preparers Process The Rest Of Us Should Listen More
My friend Angela said it briefly and wisely…”love takes courage.” <3
Courage.
Courage to love.
Courage to love through conflict.
Courage to love despite inevitable change. and the courage to love from a distance.
Remember that the time and effort we invest in a relationship, is evidence of the value we place in it:
If we prioritize our marriage relationship it will most likely give us a happier marriage.
If we prioritize time and trust with a best friend it will most likely yield a lasting friendship.
Winning Runs – Get To Know Your Team
As Major League Baseball’s Spring Training ended each team made decisions about problem players. They asked and answered:
“Do his assets exceed the sum total of his deficits?”
“Do his strengths outweigh his weaknesses?”
Your workplace has the same challenges. Building a team of competent employees is a challenge.
You can’t change someone’s personality, but you can implement strategies to help them perform professionally and more competently while on the job.
Most Common Types Of Problem People And Strategies To Help Them Succeed: 1
The non-communicative person.
Ask open questions that force her to explain what she thinks.
Winning Runs – Game Over
“Of all the four-letter words that are taboo, nothing damages the reputation of an athlete like the word quit.” 1
Mike Schmidt
I am a life-long Chicago Cubs fan.
Throughout his career Philadelphia Phillies third baseman Mike Schmidt was called a “Cubbie Killer” because of his success against the Cubs.
So when Mike Schmidt retired abruptly a few years ago many Cubs fans felt relief. I felt sad. He was a great adversary.
Injuries to Schmidt’s rotator cuff added to his collection of aches and pains. Then after a poor start to the season, Schmidt suddenly chose to announce his retirement.
Nearing Home: Life, Faith, and Finishing Well by Billy Graham
I’m forty-nine years old. I don’t feel old, but I don’t feel young either.
I spend my life encouraging others to live their life well. Mysilentscream.com exists — through stories, some tips, and some Scriptures — to inspire you to live well.
As I’m nearing fifty I’m looking for “older” people to inspire me to live the rest of my life well too. Billy Graham’s book Nearing Home: Life, Faith, and Finishing Well seemed like a good fit.
Billy Graham’s book is honest, vulnerable, and inspiring.
