Posted on Monday, April 28, 2014
in Education, Emotional, Financial, How To, Intellectual, Relational, Social, Spiritual, Values
We all have blind spots in our life; misguided thinking, bad decisions and the like. Often times other people can see our blind spots but we either ignore, deny, or dismiss them.
Last week in Rules Are FOR People I explained that we live in a reckless, rule-ignoring, freedom-focused society. Far too often in our quest for freedom we create a new blind spot.
Posted on Wednesday, November 27, 2013
in Financial, How To, Reviews, Values
“A Proven Plan for Financial Fitness.” Those words attract me, but also make me ask, “Really?”
In his Introduction Dave Ramsey explains, “Over all these years, The Total Money Makeover has given HOPE to millions of families. This book has given them hope to win, and that hope has caused them to take action and claim ultimate victory over their financial struggles and worries—and to actually win!”
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“I would give it all up to have that family back.” Those words came from a multimillionaire I met.
Meeting with him seemed intimidating at first. He was a business owner, an entrepreneur, a happily-married man and by all accounts a success, but in his mind, he had failed. He failed his first wife and their children.
His confidence became arrogance.
His determination became obsession.
His single-mindedness became blindness.
He gained a pile of money, but lost his family.
It’s a sad story, sadder-still, it’s a familiar one.
This “intimidating” man was actually a broken man.
You know that I’m hungry and feeling sorry for myself when I post about food twice in the same week.
I love Thai food; and my dairy-free and gluten-free wife and I can both enjoy Thai food.
Amy and I may disagree on which Thai restaurant has the best Thai food, but we don’t often complain if one or the other suggests we get take-out, especially after a long day of gardening.
One evening after a long day of conquering weeds I called Reuan Thai in Osseo, MN and placed our order.
Blessed be Barack Obama. the President of the United States.
Blessed be Angela Merckel, the Chancellor of Germany.
Blessed be Vladimir Putin, the President of Russia.
Blessed be Bill Gates, billionaire co-chair of the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation.
Blessed be Pope Benedict XVI, the head of the Roman Catholic Church.
And, blessed be Gloria C. Mackenzie, lottery winner.
Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. 2
Blessed are the meek – the humble, gentle and lowly – for the whole earth will belong to them. 3
Posted on Wednesday, April 17, 2013
in Emotional, Financial, How To, Social, Spiritual, Values
People do what they do because somehow, some way, their hopelessness craves for hope.
Someone bombed the Boston Marathon Monday. Someone, somehow found some level of hope in creating horror for someone else.
That grain of truth is what they grasp onto and that allows them to justify their choices.
“None of us,” wrote Christopher Wright, ” needs to be scratched very deep to uncover the darker depths of our worst desires and the evil action any of us is capable of, if pushed.” Moreover, while we are not the overt cause of others’ suffering we cannot escape it’s consequences. 1
This is how we know what real love is: Jesus gave his life for us. So we should give our lives for our brothers and sisters.
Suppose someone has enough to live and sees a brother or sister in need, but does not help. Then God’s love is not living in that person.
My children, we should love people not only with words and talk, but by our actions and true caring.
– 1 John 3:16-18, NCV
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Posted on Monday, March 18, 2013
in Emotional, Financial, Relational, Social, Values
Back to the door
Laptop on the table
Earphones in my ears
If I sit in this coffee shop for more than an hour I’ll watch people come and go.
– Maybe I’ll smile at them
– Maybe I’ll nod a hello
Usually we’re silent strangers.
A couple of minutes ago two guys sat at the table behind me.
I knew that they were there three feet away.
I barely even looked their way.
It’s an interesting bubble of space: being close to strangers.
My music stopped
I heard my neighbors talking
They’re planning the Mayor’s Prayer Breakfast
Posted on Thursday, March 7, 2013
in Emotional, Financial, How To, Relational, Social, Values
We’re examining the power of secrets this week. If you missed the first two, here they are: Hidden Away and Our Hiding
Why Do We All Hide?
“There is one thing”, explains Stephen Covey, “that is common to every individual, relationship, team, family, organization, nation, economy and civilization throughout the world — one thing which, if removed, will destroy the most powerful government, the most successful business, the most thriving economy, the most influential leadership, the greatest friendship, the strongest character, the deepest love.”
Posted on Tuesday, January 1, 2013
in Education, Emotional, Financial, How To, Intellectual, Music, Relational, Reviews, Social, Spiritual, Values
“More Than a Bucket List will challenge you to go for that hole-in-one at Pebble Beach, to become an amateur chef, to scale K2. But it will also encourage you to view these accomplishments from God’s point of view and to make your bucket list matter eternally along the way. With each page, the dream inside you will be drawn out—the higher dream of what God has purposed for you.”
The author challenges her readers to choose positive values:
Live your dreams.
Honor the strength of others.
Fight for love.
Be a Good Samaritan.
Become a more positive person.