Don’t Fear Love – Pt 7 of 10 – Ten Days Of *Loving* Advice
Express your happiness for your partner and try to enjoy every moment you have.
How? Overlook the annoyances.
When Amy and I were going through our own pre-marital counseling our minister Ralph Gustafson had us read a couple of Gary Smalley books. I adapted the following from Gary Smalley’s If Only He Knew. It’s helped me help many people to love their loved ones better. Maybe it will help you too!
Negative: Nosy?
Positive: She may be very alert or sociable.
Negative: Touchy?
Positive: He may be very sensitive.
Negative: Manipulating?
Positive: She may be a very resourceful person with many creative ideas.
Negative: Stingy?
Positive: He may be very thrifty.
Negative: Talkative?
Positive: She may be very expressive and dramatic.
Negative: Too serious?
Positive: He may be a very sincere and earnest person with strong convictions.
Negative: Stubborn?
Positive: She may be a well-disciplined person with strong convictions.
Negative: Overbearing?
Positive: He may be a very confident person–sure of himself & what he’s doing.
Negative: A dreamer?
Positive: She may be very creative and imaginative.
Negative: Too fussy?
Positive: He may be very organized and efficient.
Negative: Flighty?
Positive: She may be an enthusiastic person with cheerful vitality.
Negative: Too bold?
Positive: He may have strong convictions, uncompromising with her own standards.
Additionally, if you want to express your happiness for your partner and try to enjoy every moment you have I recommend you say all your Thank Yous, I’m Sorrys, and I Love Yous every day.
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